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Dashboard Confessional - Bend and Not Break Lyrics

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TitleBend and Not Break
ArtistDashboard Confessional
AlbumA Mark, A Mission, A Brand, A Scar [2003], Track 5
GenreAlternative, Indie, Rock
Duration05:07
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Song lyrics
I catalog these steps now
Decisive and intentioned
Precise and patterned specifically to yours
I'm talented at breathing
Especially exhaling
So that my chest will rise and fall with yours

I'm careful not to wake you
Fearing conversation
It's better just to hold you
And keep you pacified
I'm talented with reason
I cover all the angles
I can fail before I ever try

Try to understand, there's an old mistake that fools will make
And I'm the king of them, pushing everything that's good away, so
Won't you hold me now (I will not bend, I will not break)
Won't you hold me now (I will not bend, I will not break)

I am fairly agile
I can bend and not break
Or I can break and take it with a smile
And I am so resilient
I recover quickly
I'll convince you soon that I am fine

Try to understand, there's an old mistake that fools will make
And I'm the king of them, pushing everything that's good away, so
Won't you hold me now (I will not bend, I will not break)
Won't you hold me now (for you I rise, for you I fall)

Just hold me close to you, just hold me close to you
Just hold me close to you, just hold me close to you, to you

And try to understand, there's an old mistake that fools will make
And I'm the king of them, pushing everything that's good away
So, won't you hold me now
Won't you hold me now
Now, now, now, now, now
submitted by Melissa
corrected by Ari West [Mar. 12/05] on 13-03-2005


22 comments 

 Song comments
  22-11-2007 04:03 AcousticMe24 
AcousticMe24
 
112 posts
This is by far one of my favorite Dashboard songs and possibly some of the best lyrics I've ever read (that's saying a LOT).

There's just so much meaning. Some of his songs seem so personal, I almost feel bad for listening to them... as if they should be kept in a diary, and not produced in an album.
  01-03-2007 14:44 TheStagger28 
TheStagger28
 
92 posts
Another one of the great DC songs, to me, I think this song is about fearing that horrible conversation because everytime you start talking with that someone, it goes bad, but you know you want to hold and be with them. A fragile, delicate mode to be in, don't want to screw anything up, but you want to stay....
  31-12-2006 04:42 stuckinsunday 
stuckinsunday
 
16 posts
Miss the old Dashboard.
Great song.
3
  27-05-2006 18:45 HYPNOTiSED 
HYPNOTiSED
 
9,699 posts
Pretty song!
  07-05-2006 18:21 monthz 
monthz
 
28 posts
the lyrics are really great in this song, it's probably one of my favourite dashboard songs now. i love it near the end of the song where the key changes and he sings the chorus... [lyrics=] try to understand there's an old mistake that fools will make and, i'm the king of them pushing everything that's good away, won't you hold me noooooooow[/lyrics]

i LOVE the way he holds the now the first time and changes the note lower and lower, it sounds GREAT.
  07-09-2005 08:17 legonader 
legonader
 
6 posts
Love this song the lyrics are so meaningful. Have a alot of respect for chris and another great song produce. Love DC
  01-09-2005 03:41 emoandproud 
emoandproud
 
66 posts
"talented at breathing, especially exhaling. so that my chest will rise and fall with yours"
i love that line so much =) its so cute.
this song is great.
having said that. dashboard is the king of everything, i love almost every song
  14-08-2005 19:07 emoman456 
emoman456
 
5 posts
This song is about the speaker who has changed his way of life to fit with the one he loves: "Precise and patterned specifically to yours". These two people have found their "room" to live. "Bend and not break" means to be able to make sacrifices and/or compromises for the sake of hapiness for the one you love.
  12-08-2005 08:10 courtney8916 
courtney8916
 
98 posts
I completely, and utterly agree! These lyrics are most impressive and I fall in love with every dashboard song I hear. DASHBOARD IS AMAZING!
  02-08-2005 12:23 annieeeisrad 
annieeeisrad
 
4 posts
i think when i'm old i'll listen to dashboard and be flooded with every memory of being young. i have every intention of listening to them always though.
this song just makes me think of happy times.the way chris write lyrically is so astounding, its an unusual style and so distinct. i love love love this song.yaay.
  23-05-2005 03:43 Orangestar16 
Orangestar16
 
2 posts
Amazing song....I can relate to every single Dashboard song, and this one is no different. Brilliant lyrics.
  25-04-2005 01:47 r0mancEb00kgEEk 
r0mancEb00kgEEk
 
9 posts
Awesome song! Their earlier music is by far the best though, but this is still a great one! I am fairly agile I can bend and not break or I can break and take it with a smile and I am so resilient I recover quickly I'll convince you soon that I am fine...AMAZING!!
  02-01-2005 06:15 dimsim 
dimsim
 
50 posts
I love this song it is so sweet and I love you dashboard confessional and I luv u chris u r my hero
  06-12-2004 19:32 angel_anomie 
angel_anomie
 
8 posts
not worthy! not many are! this song rocks esp when ur down, esp coz of a girl!
  17-10-2004 16:43 magnificentliar 
magnificentliar
 
5 posts
has anyone heard of the string quartet, the did a tribute to dashboard and it is amazing, espescially this song. go out and find it and fall in love with this song all over again.
  17-09-2004 00:04 chucktaylors 
chucktaylors
 
4 posts
Bend and Not Break has to be one of the best Dashboard songs out there. I always post it on all of my journals because it has some great lyrics.
  11-09-2004 02:21 XoXoLeSLeY 
XoXoLeSLeY
 
27 posts
oh gosh, i love this song. i love how it starts i love how it ends. it brings so many memories back.
  04-08-2004 03:06 gothoops13 
gothoops13
 
549 posts
What do ya'll think it means?
  25-07-2004 04:14 IloveCarrabba 
IloveCarrabba
 
297 posts
this song is lyrically genius. as are most all dashboard songs... <3
  17-07-2004 17:48 maddawgmaurer 
maddawgmaurer
 
76 posts
gr8 song
  13-07-2004 00:47 AzNcuTiE77 
AzNcuTiE77
 
47 posts
ya Dashboard is awesome!! n i esp. like this song cuz i can sorta relate to it n if u wanna no wat i mean u can IM me at DaNceRSruLe77 or AzNsuGaBabE77. but once again u really cant pick a song from dashboard to call the best of the best cuz all the songs r awesome!!!
  21-06-2004 22:55 cashdogrocks 
cashdogrocks
 
5 posts
i love dashboard. they have to be one of my favorite bands. they kick your butt they make me feel happy!


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